Where the Hell is Matt? (2008) from Matthew Harding on Vimeo.
I have come to a point in my life where I feel like life is a dance. You can choose to stand at the edges of the room and watch everyone dance and enjoy themselves as you keep the walls from falling down. It so much easier there.
No embarassment.
No one judging you.
And you not stepping on anyone’s feet.
Yet saying to yourself, ” Someday I will take a some lessons and get out on the dance floor.”

I was that person for the longest time. Then I had one of those huge “AHA!” moments that some people talk about in my journey to becoming the Man I am now.
We are dancing right now. Perhaps some of us with 2 left feet. Perhaps we are clumsily leading when we should be following, and vice-versa.
I found this video today and found it only appropriate that I welcome you to my blog by showing you the beauty in a silly dance and the contagious element within the energy we put out.
Welcome.
I would love to hear what you have to say. Please enjoy and share your thoughts.
p.s.
Ladies! I am in no way trying to make this a women-bashing site. Far from it. My goal is to share my journey. If you have some thoughts and opinions to share I would LOVE to hear them. This is just the beginning and will be painting in more of the vision in the day, weeks, and months to come. For now just remember this word… EVOLVE.
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Very good video! It makes you wonder…….Are you dancing or are you watching the dancing take place?
Life is too short to live with any regrets. So love the people who treat you right, and forget about the one’s that don’t. Believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands. If it happens to change your life, let it. Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it.
SO MAKE IT WORTH IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I liked the video! It’s funny and it also pulls at your emotions.
Also the journey to becoming a Man, can be hard as hell! So many people have different definitions of a Man. I’m not sure if I am there yet, but I think I am on the right road. I guess time will tell.
So…do you chicken dance??? I don’t have a clue what that journey may look like for you, but I can tell you this…life is too short to stand back and wait until you’ve “arrived” in order to feel fulfilled. Enjoy the place you are in now with the people who matter in your life and know that tomorrow may bring you to a different situation altogether.
Many kisses to you for stepping out into what you believe in!!
I loved the video from Matt? And the words very inspiring, I definitely want to keep dancing…..