Jonas Brothers We Are Not!
My story is not unique, yet it is different. My story is specific to Mexican men and our culture, yet I would argue that despite the cultural differences, all men struggle with the same things.
With that being said, this blog will now have an added perspective that should make for an interesting read. It will now include a little more about my background and personal story as it relates to my family. Of brothers. Of men.
What better way to illustrate how men are are a confused gender? What a better way to illustrate how 3 brothers with similar upbringings can take such different paths in their lives?
I am often asked how it’s possible to be so different from each other. Some friend’s cannot believe that we are even brothers.
I am often asked why men can’t just be men. That is an intriguing question and one that I have analyzed deeply. My belief and answer to that question will come in a future post.
In the last several years I have asked myself the same questions that leave women perplexed and pissed at us as a whole. I have developed theories and in the process totally had to throw out old beliefs that were given to be all my life.
Some of those beliefs involved religion and marriage. Many will not agree with what I have concluded, but they are just that, my beliefs. It has given my life some structure and allowed me to “try” to make the best of my life. By no means does that mean I am right nor that I will not respect those that do not agree with me.
I have asked myself questions such as:
- Why the hell does the size of a woman’s breast really make a woman attractive? Seriously! Why? It’s just flesh. Yet I am just as guilty as most men of admiring women with nice breasts even if it’s obvious they are fake. But why?
- Why do we “not realize what we had until we don’t have it anymore?
- Why is the divorce rate so high? Aren’t we in love and do we not hold those vows holy?
I ask those questions and have tried to be as sincere as possible. Non-apologetic.
My answers to these questions and many more are coming soon, very soon.
