Why must we take two steps forward and one step back

March 4, 2009

GROWTH? I don’t see any steenkin’ growth?
Of course you don’t. I have a hell of a time trying to figure out if I am better off  now than I was 5 years ago or 10 years from now. I can’t remember ever looking in the mirror and realizing that I am not over 30 years [...]

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Changes are coming

February 9, 2009

I am leaving my job officially on March 1st.
I may be released before that date. After that comes to happen I will be blogging with more time to dedicate and grow this blog to what I have always invisioned to being.
A place for men to share their stories. The truth-TRUTH as my lovely girlfriend says. [...]

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Connect! Just say hello to the world!

January 27, 2009

Simply say hello to the world.
Given some of our advances in technology we are becoming less and less social. And yet we have social media as the tagline.
I have learned that I am a very outgoing person. People laugh hysterically when I tell them that I was shy.

“Yea right!? YOU?”

And I was. I was trained [...]

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Can a Man Wear Pink and Still be a Man?

December 17, 2008

Years ago I would have said no.
Or rather I would have said:

“HELL NO! No real men wear pink.”

Well as the years have matured me and made me wiser. ( Simply agree , ok?) 
I now have a different perspective and belief. When I was younger I took on the beliefs of that generation. 

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Am I A.D.D.?

December 4, 2008

Yes I have ADD and pretty proud of it, thank you very much. Although I have never been clinically diagnosed. Much respect goes out to my parents for just putting up with my hyperactivity. 
 
One of the realizations that I have had in my journey is that I have a problem focusing. I cannot seem to [...]

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WARNING: #1 Lesson on Becoming a Man

November 25, 2008

I consider myself a well-read individual with a peculiar sense of humor. I consider myself the type of person that can take criticism and feedback (yes ladies, even the bad) and use it to improve myself. 
In the past several years I have read a lot of books, listened to a lot of audio, and seen [...]

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Learning can be your greatest life skill

July 19, 2008

I found this blog today for this blog. How odd and fortuitous(I have been wanting to use that in a post forever).
Official Google Blog: Our Googley advice to students: Major in learning
So now let me share my story.
During the last year and a half I been on a huge huge journey to learn and master [...]

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Do we really want success or happiness?

July 15, 2008

If we find ourselves in a place of discomfort do we take true steps to make us happy?
Do we ever sabotage our own success and happiness? It may sound like a real silly question, or does it?
Despite our discomfort in our situations in our jobs and relationships I believe that we get comfortable with the [...]

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FRIENDS: Real or fake?

July 13, 2008

When I was a young boy my father repeatedly told me that there was no such thing as friends. Imagine for a moment what your reaction would be to that statement. I was probably 5-6 when I first remember hearing that and continued to hear it throughout my childhood.
I never put too much weight [...]

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Energy + Passion (Commitment) = VIRUS

July 6, 2008

Where the Hell is Matt? (2008) from Matthew Harding on Vimeo.

I have come to a point in my life where I feel like life is a dance. You can choose to stand at the edges of the room and watch everyone dance and enjoy themselves as you keep the walls from falling down. It so [...]

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